Quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, factions, slander, gossip, arrogance, disorder…what horribly ugly words; ones that all stem from a common element—self-centered pride.
Pride is a tricky thing. On the surface, it’s seen as simply taking pleasure in an accomplishment or a person or an affiliation, all of which are not necessarily bad things. But at its core is found potential for something dangerously destructive. Pride without perspective and gratitude quickly swells into a hideous beast.
“Pride goes before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall.” – Proverbs 16:18
Self-centered pride is poison, often mistaken for confidence; an overbearing exaltation of yourself. It breeds arrogance, superiority, contemptuousness, condescension and wrongly sets you above others. Pride burns bridges, builds walls, destroys relationships, and prevents dialogues. It’s harmful, shameful, ugly and disgusting.
People often wonder why trouble and strife seem to abound. But it isn’t surprising considering that our culture exalts beauty, wealth, success, status and validation in being “right.” This feeds our pride and brings with it an ugly sense of entitlement.
There is a remedy for inflated pride. Humility.
“Humility is not thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less.”— C.S. Lewis.
There will always be someone smarter, wealthier, funnier, prettier, luckier, more popular and seemingly better off than you. And there will always be those who are less so. Be grateful for where you are in your life and for all of the blessings you enjoy (there are more than you can probably count). Moreover, stop thinking solely of yourself and instead give attention to others. Lift them up. Mend fences.
Pride is an empty cup, but humility is one that overflows. Being humble leads to a spirit of giving which in turn pours out blessing not only to others, but mysteriously and in abundance into your own life. The more you pour out, the greater you are filled up.
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